When to leave because of stepchild

You should probably leave if you’re not willing to commit. We can’t all be perfect, but we also don’t want to stay in a situation that’s unhealthy for us either. If your partner has made it clear they cannot commit and doesn’t seem interested in changing their mind, then the best thing you can do is move on so you have time and space to find someone who will love both of these kids as much as you do. It may feel like giving up, but sometimes this is what needs to happen for everyone involved.”