The New Year is about restarting on a fresh note with resolutions to live better. Most New Year resolutions are about losing weight, getting fit, and pursuing financial goals. But you may miss out on one thing that deserves attention- your relationship. It is easy to take your relationship for granted, even more, when you have been together for ages. However, a little effort to rekindle the intimacy can go a long way in strengthening your bond. Sadly, most couples fail to invest effort on the romance front though it is as important as being emotionally connected. This year, you can do your bit with these bedroom-special recommendations to spark romance.
Be vocal about your fantasies
Everyone has fantasies they want to experience. But it is easy to keep them to yourself because you fear rejection. This year, resolve to be vocal about your fantasies and encourage your partner to do the same. Knowing each other’s desires and making conscious efforts to fulfil them can take your relationship to the next level. So shed your inhibitions and speak up!
Exchange a massage
Your bedroom shouldn’t just be for passion and intimacy. Make it a place to relax and indulge in self-care. Even better, you can try becoming each other’s therapists. A daily massage ritual can do wonders for your relationship. Talk to each other, find the pleasure points, and focus on relaxation during the massage session. You will have a lot more fun in what follows after the massage.
Think outside the box
Physical intimacy takes a hit when it lacks novelty. You can expect your bedroom life to get boring when you follow the same routine night after night. Think outside the box this New Year and try something different to keep things abuzz. Investing in a real whizzinator XXX is a great idea. The experience is wet and wild, and you will love the newness. You can try different positions or even make out under the shower. Promise to be as creative as possible!
Take a break
Having too little of each other is unhealthy, but having too much can also dull the spark. Try taking a break and staying off each other a couple of nights every week. You will feel the heat turning on again. Moreover, you will feel like breaking the rules on off-nights. Break them without thinking twice because that’s the real objective of the bedroom-break practice.
Ditch the phone
The easiest-sounding resolution is to ditch your phone in the bedroom, but it is often the hardest to stick with. Your phone can affect your relationship as it takes away the fair share of your attention. You cannot expect your partner to wait for you until midnight while you answer work emails, check social media, or read news on your phone. Turn the phone off and turn on the heat in the bed.
Maintaining a thriving relationship requires effort, and the bedroom is the best place to start. Follow these resolutions this New Year to rekindle the spark and strengthen your attraction.
