Guys, you might be running around getting ready for the holidays, or simply trying to stay out of your wife’s way while she does (some of us just aren’t cut out for holiday planning, and I’m brave enough to admit that). While you might both be busy, don’t forget to make time for each other. With the added holiday stress and hustle and bustle of the season you might find it easy to lay romance aside, but it’s essential you make the effort all winter long to keep the spark alive, no matter the weather outside.
Fort Fun
Harken back to childhood and make a fort in the middle of your living room when it’s too cold to be outside. Gather all of the pillows and blankets from around the house to make for a cozy cocoon of sorts. Crawl in together and share a glass of wine, watch a movie on your laptop, or just take a well-deserved nap while the kids are hanging out at a friend’s house.
An Office Surprise
Nothing says romance better than a bouquet of beautiful buds. Sending flowers to her work is a surefire way to make her smile, and make her thoughtful husband (hint, hint, that’s you!) the talk of the office. I don’t know about you, but I’m awful at selecting flowers. There are way too many colors, styles, and types to choose from. Grab some Christmas bouquets designed by the pros and take the stress out of finding the right arrangement. You can have them delivered the same day you ordered them, so if you’re looking for a last-minute surprise, this is definitely your best bet.
Make the Most of the Weather
What could be more romantic than whisking your wife away for a weekend at a ski resort? You can shred the slopes during the day and wine and dine at night in the comfort of your lodging. Even if you’re not skiers, a getaway to a snowy wonderland is the perfect way to keep your romance alive. Burn a fire in the cabin or hotel room and spend some time keeping each other warm while watching the snow fall outside.
Get a Winter Reprieve
If you already live in a snowy climate and you’re looking to get a reprieve from snow, cold temperatures, and arctic winds, then consider heading off on a trip to somewhere warm and tropical. Whether it’s Hawaii, Mexico, the Bahamas, or any other easily accessible sandy locale, you and your wife can spend some time reconnecting while dipping your toes into crystalline waters. You might also consider taking an all-inclusive cruise to take the stress out of planning a detailed vacation. Travel deals often pop up around the holidays, so check out a site like Travelocity.com to find the vacation of your dreams.
Buy Her a Treat
Maybe all she needs to take a load off of holiday stress is a sweet treat. Surprise her with a batch of freshly made cookies when she gets home from work, make her a mug of piping hot cocoa, or sneak a bag of her favorite candy into her purse before she leaves for the day. This surprise will be most welcome when she hits that afternoon slump, and you’ll get a text or call of her gushing thanks.
A Day of Luxury
You might not know this, guys, but winter weather can be harsh on our skin, and if you’ve not heard your wife complaining of dry skin or chapped lips, you no doubt will soon. Make sure she feels taken care of and give her a day of luxury that she’ll never forget. Buy her a gift certificate to a spa so she can get the treatment of her choice, and tack on some extra money for a couple’s massage that will relieve both of you from the year’s tensions and stresses.
With a little bit of effort you can keep your romance alive and well during the cold winter months. Treat your wife like royalty and improve your relationship at the same time for a season you’ll both always remember.
